I am sorry you are going thru such a hard time. I have dealt with depression and migraines and both are horrible. My migraine medicine, amitriptyline (which ironically is also an antidepressant) makes me so tired and sleepy I tried to stop it. Then I got migraines so I will need to get back on it. I cannot function with migraines so I will have to deal with the side effects. Best wishes.