I've recently told my T that I have some issues along these lines that I need to discuss, but how do I actually tell her? Has anyone else had that conversation (or written it down) to tell their T that they remind you of what you wish you could have in your own mum or that you wish they could fill this role in your life.

I have no idea where to start to tell her this. I would prefer to write it down because I know I will not be able to say it, but I have no idea where to start without sounding pathetic/needy etc.

Any ideas on how to say this in a way that is not so embarrassing that I can never go back?