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Old May 21, 2007, 09:34 AM
withit withit is offline
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Thank you all for your wonderful support and insight. Yeah, I'm getting the message, loud and clear: that I need to tell t what it is I want.

AK, I like what you said about helpless clients needing to idealize their t....

Still, why is it so damn scary to ask t for what I want! Oh well, it's certainly a relationship pattern...lol...just realized that....