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Old Jan 01, 2015, 08:11 AM
PaulaS PaulaS is offline
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Ok, thatīs somewhat reassuring and gives me a little more hope that I will be able to work through problems around termination and longing for my former T. I think itīs impossible to avoid transference but as long as your current T sees it and knows how to handle it, it should be a way to streighten things out.

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Originally Posted by Clementine K View Post
A new T does help, and I do speak a lot about former T with new T. Our way of handling I guess is talking about it until the power is gone, and distractions outside of therapy. It's terrible but now I have similar transference issues with new T. A talk is coming! The intensity isn't as strong as with old T so I can be happy about that. Transference is a sneaky beast. When I can get away from therapy all together I'll be very happy.