I've been on Effexor for a few months, and it has killed my sex drive and my ability to even get turned on in the least. It's like I've become frigid. I see my pdoc next week and I'm demanding that I be put on a different AD. I've never had this problem in my life and I've been on a lot of different ADs so I'm hopeful things will return to normal for me.

As others have said, just explain the problem to your pdoc. My pdoc is male and I'll be kind of embarrassed to bring up the topic but what the hell.

Good luck with this. I'm sure you can find an AD that will not affect you in that area.