Thankfully my T didn't ask outright about plans for new year. Self esteem is in the toilet already. But I raised the topic myself, mentioning modest goals related to organization around the house. These are not things she would have me focus on, but she knows with recent events this isn't the time to push. I might start a journal, just writing a couple lines what went well or not each day. Then again, might not!

It is probably hard for Ts to know when/how to press clients about making changes. It's hard enough for clients (aka humans) to know how much to press themselves at any time. Let alone during an emotionally charged season, in a media saturated culture. Hopefully 2015 will be better for a lot of folks on PS, and humanity generally. And that won't come down to identifying the "correct" New Years resolutions.