I put a trigger warning on here bec I wanto be very specific & blunt. I need blunt answers in return to understand this.
I have ddnos & experience co consciousness. I have a part that has been coming out more & more. It's triggered due to sex & I've become more & more sexually active so this part I guess feels like it can take over more & more.
Problem is I enjoy when she takes over. She does things I never would but I do experience great satisfaction thru her. She's like an alter ego. Sometimes very sassy, cheeky & dominant where as I wod say I'm more submissive. It's starting to get a bit confusing & a bit of a challenge for my partner to understand. There's such big changes or swings of emotions it gets confusing to him. It also happens extremely fast. I can feel it coming on.
So do I let this happen & enjoy it. Do I try to reign it in & do more grounding to keep myself present & this other part away or do I just...run with it. I'm very confused.
Thanks for your help!