I have/had father transferance with my male T. I knew that I needed to work through it and to work through it I had to tell him. I told him I had something to talk about with him. He asked me what it was. I said my feelings about you. When we met I told him that sometimes with male figures I struggle with father feelings and that I was feeling that with him. He was very understanding and didn't make me feel bad at all. I'm glad I told him and we've talked about it a few times.