Hi Bongo2015

I am sorry that you have had such a difficult time trying to get answers for your condition. I may have commented on this before in another forum but I will add a few more comments.

I have always wondered if I have ADHD and being an adult without it already diagnosed in childhood has been the biggest frustration in my life. What you are describing could very well be something to do with sensory processing. I don't know your history as far as school or learning traits so I cannot know. A T or someone who specializes in these things will be your best shot at finding answers. Some people with ADHD and Aspergers have sensory issues like this. I am not saying that you have these.

I would do my best to find a specialist in this field. I hope you live near enough a big city where you can find a specialist more easily as they are hard to find. Keep being persistent and don't give up as it sounds like it is causing you a lot of distress. I wish I had a better answer for you.

Best wishes!