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nushi · Jan 01, 2015, 12:37 PM

Dear Alter

I not only feel for you, but I've also gone through with what you feel right now with THREE men, yes, THREE times, can you believe that?!

And moreso, 2 of those men were actually very good persons, & I was nearly engaged to one of them, but they left me because they couldn't bear my obsessions & OCD, & now I'm living as a hermit all alone.

But at least I managed to get over my love for each. Well, I tell you what too, one of them I was so crazy with (the one I nearly got engaged to) that after he dumped I just kept running after him, calling him everyday, going to his workplace & house, begging him to not leave me for a whole year (& our relationship lasted only for 4 months, so I actually ran after him for a longer period than our actual relationship)

But you know how I got over it? I found out that he got engaged to another girl. So I just gathered everything that reminds me of him, threw it in the garbage & took a decision I WILL GET ON WITH MY LIFE. It was hard at first, to block any thoughts about them, you know? I mean controlling your mind thoughts & emotions are the hardest thing, but I kept trying... Whenever a though comes for him, I would postpone it for another time, & I get busy with what I do at hand... & just 3 or 4 months later I forgot all about them

It might get a bit longer for you, but it will work out soon enough, trust me

I mean you already managed to get over her before.

Also another guy, returned after he dumped me & I got over him, by this way, but I don't get fooled for it again, so if she comes back just ignore her as if she doesn't even exist