I have been dating someone for 8 months. Tuesday night we happened to be invited to the same concert. I was upset he was going because he said he was accompanying his friend who wanted him to go because he had a date that was also bringing a friend. I freaked out initially, but he told me to "chill out, that it was not that type of thing". We arrived at the concert separately, and did not bumped into each other the whole night. We failed at texting at one point I was so drunk I text him that I did not think we were compatible and that I was done communicating with him. I also showed up at his building and buzzed his apartment for 10 minutes to no response. so all day New Year's Eve I messaged and text and since then, I am continuing to do so with no response. He is getting the messages as they are marked as read and he is signing in out of FB or google chat. I call him and no answer.
I apologized for the texts, I was obviously drunk. I don't know what else to do. This hurts so much to be ignored on NYE of all days. I stayed home miserable. I don't know what to do, he has never ignored me like this. I keep making up excuses like he is busy with his business, but it's a holiday. He's not at work and it takes two seconds to reply to a text or message. I can't stop sending him messages, though I know it would probably be best to stop.
I'm so utterly sad and miserable, I haven't eaten and have been in bed all day.
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