First of all, Happy New Years to all of you! Hopefully 2015 will be better for everyone! Anyways, I finally heard back from "Jane" last night after I texted her. I wished her a Happy New Years and that I miss her and that I hope to see her fairly soon. Well, she did text me back a couple of hours later and she told me that she just got back from Kaiser and that she's stable.

I said that's great and that I'm glad to hear that. I didn't ask her what happened as I did that in the past in emails and usually she was vague as if she didn't always want to talk about that much. I know that she is suffering from high blood pressure and type two diabetes, and is getting occasional panic and anxiety attacks. If anything else is going on, she didn't tell me about it yet.

Anyways, I didn't ask her about her health, so maybe that pissed her off a bit? Should I have asked her about things? Anyways, she got annoyed at me just for asking her to let me know if anything fishy on FB comes up as I'm in the process of deleting my FB page due to it getting hacked. She then accused me of "obsessing" over FB and then she told me that it was giving her a headache. WTH? I was pissed, but I kept my cool since she is going through so much now.

I then made a sarcastic joke and told her that by deleting FB, that is as far as one can get from being obsessed about it, lol! I then told her that if simply watching out for me is to stressful for her, then I apologize for that. I then told her that I was simply asking her to let me know if anyone tries or have tried to log into there as me.

She then got kind of quiet then. After that she made some jokes about how I should have a few drinks, and that she should have a few drinks. I went with it, but I'm pissed. This is the second time that she lashed out at me since she got sick. The first time was when I tried to ask her if she'd like for me to drop off her Xmas gift at her place or come pick it up at my place. Well, she is living with her crazy mom now, so she freaked out and told me to not stop by as it would cause trouble for her.

I've never stopped by uninvited. She then went on to say that she doesn't care about gifts and that she didn't get anything for anyone. I told her that I'd never stop by uninvited and that I wasn't expecting anything back from her. I told her that I was just trying to cheer her up. I'm at the point to where I'm sick of it being all about her and her health issues now. She ignored me completely last night when I suggested that we go to a movie, lunch, or even a walk with her dog.

It's as if she wants to avoid me completely. I get that she's sick, but she could've at least said something like sure, when I get better, we can do that. I'm mad that she is taking out her anger and frustrations in life out on me. I'm NOT a doormat! I can't help but feel that she is angry that I'm fine and she's sick. She acts like all I care about is my social life which isn't true. She told me that having health problems is worse than having social problems. She tried to hide her anger as a joke, but I could see right through that.

To make things even weirder, she actually TOLD me to come back on FB since she might be getting a new p/t job soon. WTH? Didn't she just tell me that I obsess about FB to much? LOL! Why can't she just tell me that via email? BTW, she is a huge hypocrite she seems to spend all day on FB posting recipes and DIY projects, and promoting her Avon business sometimes. I'm not going back on FB to accommodate her! I'll just email her and tell her to email me with any news about the job or anything else!

Should I say anything to her now or wait until she's better? I'm sure that her abuse will get worse over time if I don't speak up soon. I'm also sure that she'll get mad and give me the silent treatment if I say anything to offend her or "stress" her out in anyway. How should I approach her? I feel as if I'm walking on eggshells around her now!
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