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Old Jan 01, 2015, 09:51 PM
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I had such a long, drawn-out ordeal trying to tell my T about my feelings for her that I see where you're at with this. I tried to think of things to say, and came here for advice and comfort, which really helped, too. What helped me break the ice was to ask T what she believed about treating Transference. It was my fear of being treated rough for these feelings that held me back. But asking her what she believed was so re-assuring that I trusted her more, and got us started. And it was a way of angling in with my question, instead of too direct.