Why do you feel that you and he are incompatible? How long have you felt this? Was it just something you said in anger because he was with another friend? Is it a gut feeling that you think is right and maybe you want to end it yet are afraid to be alone?

I really don't know what to say without more information about the relationship prior to the concert.

I stayed up late last night too and I am exhausted and have not done my usual evening posts to my friends here. That is different but maybe he is really tired too. Or perhaps he is confused because of your conflicting texts. I don't know.

I wish you the best.