IMO, what matters most is your opinion of the relationship and it's importance in your life.
Your self-esteem has to be #1, plain and simple. If your friend's words and behavior has hurt you, then, by all means be firm with your friend. How strongly you should word things depends upon how important the relationship is to you.
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