Thanks for the advice. I did hear back from her and she told me that she wasn't lashing out at me. She told me that she was having another panic attack that was so bad that she had to go to the ER. Part of me thinks that she is lying since she intends to take a new p/t job soon. With all of her constant hospital visits, how can she possibly hold down a job unless it's at home?

Does anyone else find that to be odd? Almost every time I get an email from her, she went to the ER or the hospital for something again. Having blood pressure and type two diabetes that she supposedly says is under control doesn't seem like something that you'd have to constantly go to the ER or the hospital for. I've had panic attacks for over 10 years, and even at the worst times, I have never went to the ER or the hospital.

Is she exaggerating stuff or not? Also, she is making it seem like I'm putting my "social" concerns and "obsession" (how can I be obsessed with FB when I deleted the damn thing btw) over her health. OMG, WTH? She is making it all about her. I get that she's sick, but this is to much.

She doesn't want to hear about anything that isn't about her or her illness it seems like and she tried to make me feel like I'm at fault for things since her other friends understand that her health comes first. I told her that I get that and that just because I talk about other things once in awhile, it doesn't mean that I don't think that her health is not a concern of mine. It is. I'm always asking her about it! I think that she is over exaggerating things to make it all about her. What do you guys think?