Hey I have this friend, who I am starting to drift away from due to how he acts. He thrives on drama, not happy without it. He blows things out of proportion and then gets mad when he says there is drama. If he sees someone he dislikes, he will go on for minutes talking about how bad of a person they are and how he wishes they would vanish. And scary enough, he has something bad to say about everyone, even his best friend or other friends. Bet you any money he talks about me behind my back. I no longer feel close to him and decided to pull away from him. I am friends with another girl that is insecure about herself and he made her upset because she has a crush on a international student and he does not like them, he is very racist and judgemental. So he proceeded to tell her that they would only like her for a green card, so they can stay or to use her, which is not true. She just got over a break up so I think what he did was really rude since that really upset her. He also claims to have Asperger's but it is not a good excuse to be an a**hole to others and bring people down. He also ignores her anytime she brings up her ex or just needs to vent about something. He is also very self-centered, always talks about how good looking and beautiful he is, yes, he claims to be very beautiful. He likes other women so I doubt he is gay. Maybe bi. It drives me crazy though that he does nothing but complain about others, yet he gets mad if someone else complains about something different. I feel like this is someone I should no longer associate with. I think he secretly feels insecure so he back stabs everyone to bring himself up. He is very hypocritical. Just need to know how to approach him from now on every time he comes over to start complaining about others. I told him to stop once and he didn't. Maybe for a few minutes but then he started talking about someone different. Always someone he has to talk trash about. Just not sure how to handle him now.