Mumble he is clearly manipulating you. He is feeling bad for your attention. When you take that attention away he tells you you're heartless/insensitive. He basically had a temper tantrum because he's not getting what he wants from you. You then give him attention and he goes back to feeling bad/sad but not angry.

A relationship is when two people care about each other and support one another. You are clearly supporting him in every way and he's using you as a doormat. He's not supporting you even when you ask. When you stand up for yourself he turns around and says you're not being supportive. How is he supporting you?????

People often settle for less than in a relationship when they have low self esteem. Why are you settling by putting up with his mind games?

Call the police and have them check on him. They can go to his work or where he lives. You won't have any blood on your hands. The best way for him to get treatment is for him to threaten suicide. The police will have no choice but to have him go to the hospital where he will get help.

Keep us posted and don't let him drag you down. Find a person that will lift you up.


PS - the cycle of an abuser is to beat you down and then apologize - I love you, I can't live without you, I would do anything for you.... Then they explode and the cycle repeats. You shouldn't be involved with someone like that. They get in your head and before you know it you're apologizing for something they did/caused.

Save yourself especially before it gets physical.

Don't be a statistic and RUN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!