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I've had something similar. Part of me says - those are really bad red flags, and have felt the same "why am I paying for this" thing that you said. And part of me says - if you leave after a big red flag, if things have otherwise been good, I wonder if you will second-guess yourself. That's what happened to me - except I didn't leave after the first red flg, I left after several red flags, talking about it that never resolved anything. And I still feel lousy about things not being resolved. That hurts all by itself.
The question of when to leave (be it therapy, a spouse, a fiance, abusive parents) and when to keep trying is a hard one. I wish there was an easier
answer.
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