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My best friend (I live with her) is causing me to become frustrated when we are together. A lot of times when I try to talk about something she isn't interested and says she doesn't want to talk. Then, approximately 5 minutes later she starts talking about something pertaining to her, usually men. She talks about this same man nearly every conversation.
I always listen to her when she talks, but I don't think it's fair to not be interested in what I have to say and then expect me to want to hear her. This doesn't happen every day. As a matter of fact her mood changes so often. Sometimes she talks to me about what I want to, but not nearly as much as I listen to her talk about a. Men or b. her weight. I don't really care to hear that over and over but as her friend, I listen.
Also, if I try to tell her that she did anything wrong, she gets angry, depending on her mood. When she's in a good mood I usually forget to mention the problem. Is it unreasonable that I'm frustrated?
I actually love her, which is rare for me to care about a person that much.
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