well, i'm married and ''hetorosexual'' which to me is a made up word like any other. but i dont think it matters what sex you are, i could quite happily fall in love with a woman too. i wish peope wouldn't stick with old-fashioned labels, if you fall in love you fall in love, either with the opposite sex or with the same. i would have no problem with sex with a woman if i was in love with her.
sorry if i wandered off the path of your question psyclox. i just needed to say that, i wish everyone were just treated as equals whether lesbian, homosexual or hetero. live and let live is what i say.

jinny xoxoxoxox