This is what I put on my facebook/tumblr:

Sure, your death was tragic, but look what you could have done, could have become. You are no longer a movement but part of a death toll. You could have been one of the great leaders and voices of your community, now you're just a passive echo of a life you wish you could have lived. Trans teens cannot and should not follow in your footsteps. You could have done great things and have made something for generations to come, but you simply ended your life. I wish there were more voices heard in your community, and you could have been one of them.