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Old Jan 03, 2015, 09:05 PM
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Originally Posted by divine1966 View Post
have you explored any family dynamics? are your parents happily married? i know i fall for wrong guys who are just like my dad and i never had good relationship role model as my parents don't have good marriage. try to see why you look for wrong guys
Well, Mom and Dad have recently celebrated their 37th wedding anniversary. Their relationship is quite a treat because my mother is the laid back, let things go, choose her battles type of woman, and my father is the constantly complaining, stubborn to a T, not ever wrong (even when he's clearly so), control freak of a man.

Mom tends to eat less dairy and meat, and more veggie alternatives plus loves a lot of things my dad would point blank refuse to touch. While Dad is your basic meat and potatoes type of guy (I guess that's what being raised on a Midwestern dairy farm will do).

I don't see how these two are so compatible, but somehow they work. I do have this nagging sort of fear that they will divorce someday as their differences are so, well, different. I just hope that one day, Mom and Dad have an argument over one of the common fuel subjects (subjects that are an ongoing hot topic, so big that it sends a huge wedge in between them.

I guess this fear arose because I grew to realize that nothing in life is a sure thing, well nothing except death and taxes that is. Anything can change in a blink of an eye. It also doesn't help that I've had a few dreams at night where they do, in fact separate and get a divorce.
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