Thanks for your reply.
It really rattles my brain, you think you know someone and you think they would never be capable of this and they prove your wrong. I want to think he is not a scumbag. He actually sent me a cat video...that was his response on friday, a cat drinking champagne. No other words or reply to anything I said.
Which leads me to believe he still wants to maintain some contact.
it's driving me mad. I think I NEED to see a therapist or else I'll never be able to resolve this. His friend suggested I go to his apt, he hadn't responded to his best friend either, but he told me he finally heard from him friday night. I asked whether he could encourage him to respond to me. Thats my last attempt, there is really nothing else to do.
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Originally Posted by divine1966
I once really liked someone (really intense like falling for him) who just disappeared and never provided any closure, I kindly wrote to him that i understand if he wants to stop but would appreciate some closure so I can move on, he still never said a word. My therapist told me that this is nothing to do with me and just shows that this is person is emotionally unhealthy as they cannot face the reality and be direct with a woman. then she said if that is how he deals with such simple thing like telling someone they aren't interested imagine how he deals with true hardships? be glad it ended now. So I think the way this dude handled the situation speaks volume about HIM not YOU and you are better off. Hugs and best wishes
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