Thread: Two Bipolars...
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Old Jan 03, 2015, 09:32 PM
djewell9888 djewell9888 is offline
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Originally Posted by Nature1968 View Post
Unless he is willing to get help and stop drinking he will make it much harder for you as you will need the support from him . He is going to hold you back and this will become toxic .

He has to want it get better for himself and it sounds like he's not ready or willing
I am seeing that more and more. Every day is a struggle, but also every day that it is in front of me and i refuse to take part in it, whether nicely or firmly, I feel stronger yet I kinda feel disrespected at times because he knows how hard I am working on this and how much I truly want it for my health and my loved ones.... <lost/confused>