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Originally Posted by Teepee
Hey AO,
I think it's great you can put yourself out there, I read a lot of what is posted on a few different areas but very rarely reply and have only started three??? Threads as I'm so scared I will be ignored, judged and dismissed.
Good on you!!
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Don't be afraid. I know that many users read but don't daré to post. It's all in our minds. Noone is going to ignore us or laugh at us in a place like this. The same will happen in many other places, being those on line or real life, people don't ignore us. We are the one who put ourselves in a position to be unnoticed.
This is the price we pay for ours fears and our rigid way of thinking.
All is in our minds.
I have pósted in many ocassions, a thread and recived zero answers.
Should I think that people are ignoring me? Why? Is it that I'm the worst boring person in the world? Do they this bc they don't like me? No, they don't know me.
There are moré possibilities that the thread was read and tgey don't know what to reply. Or they, perhaps, are not interesting in the topic, or agree with what I posted and they don't have anything else to say, or...or that the ones who read the thread are afraid of being ignored, like you, and don't post.
Welcome back! A long time without reading your posts. I missed you.