Yes,

Echoes,

I agree that I don't want too much disclosure and frankly T didnt disclose much at all. I know his kid went to the same school as mine because it came up in conversation and the info from friend came up accidentaly between me and her because i mentioned his name to her. So....when i told him about the mutual friend he wanted to know if we had talked about him. He wasn't really self disclosing, but I think he was fishing around to see if I was curious about him.

In reality, he discloses very little, just enough to keep me comfortable, knowing he is a human.

Hmmmm more food for thought.

Hey, by the way, unrelated, I bought a Pema Chodron book today & can't wait to get started on it. T thought I would enjoy her writing. I'll let you know.