Hi again,
I added a reply already, but when I clicked 'post quick reply' it disappeared so I hope its just somewhere being moderated.
i wanted to add one more thing. I am currently so stressed myself, that I could easily just quit my job...I really could. Now, instead of it just being a job I don't want to go to, I am under even more pressure because it's paying DD's fees, and buying food. I'm not sure how much more I can take truthfully. I have no other sources of support really either emotionally or financially. I have a DD who has major issues, an alcoholic mother who has no money, and that's it. I feel kind of alone. Friends are great, but at some point you can't keep telling them how hard you are finding life and coping with it is. You know there's only so many times they can hear that...
sorry. I'm ranting. Thank you for helping. I really appreciate it.