I don't remember shaking hands when meeting my ex-T for the first time, although she thinks we did. All I remember is waving at her when she introduced herself to me in the waiting room. But many hugs were shared before she moved away.

Current T and I shook hands upon meeting for the first time, and the only other time there's been physical contact between us was when I was having a panic attack and she asked if she could put her hand on my shoulder. She has offered hugs in the past, but I currently have no intention of taking her up on that offer.