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Originally Posted by sideblinded
This is a sad thing that she said that to you. It is also a sad thing that the mental health system sucks there. For this I am truly sorry. Is there any way to be honest with your mom about your eating habits? I was just wondering if the dishonest issue is the real problem for your mother's apparent mean remarks. Values seem to be very important to parents. I am just wondering if this is the biggest problem that is causing her to say these things to you. Can you wait until she settles down and try to talk with her?
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I'll try to talk to her again, but she doesn't believe me anymore, i've lied to her about almost everything, but i lied to her as a way of protecting her, i don't know if that makes sense. I didn't want to tell her, for example, how much i was drinking this summer, because i knew she would feel guilty, and then one day it was too much and she found out the worst way possible. That's just an example of all the things i've lied to her about in this time. She knows about my eating attitudes but she expects me to stop now that i've got "help". Apart from that, when i feel bad i can't tell her, as she expects sometimes. I always do the "i'm fine, leave me alone" thing. When i tell her i'm sick and i can't stop that easily, but i'm trying my hardest, she laughs at me and tell me i don't know what being sick means and she tells me to stop calling her attention this way. I don't get it. Why does she think i'm seeking attention when i never tell her anything right away?
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