Ok so you had a clue when you first met him that he wasn't particularly tactile. You obviously have different levels of sex drive. You want it every day . He thinks that everyday is too much and it's getting to be a bit of a chore and he is feeling pressured. That's the impression i get. And for a lot of couples great sex EVERY day would be unsustainable. You say you love each other . That he is very caring, practical, thinks you are sweet and generous. There are a lot of good things there. He is not a very sensual person. You can't really change that. That's his nature. Have you made the bedroom as sensually stimualting as you can. As for different postions have you got Ann Hoopers ' Kama Sutra'. Try some different ones. I don't think it's fair for you to expect great orgasmic sex every day from a man whose sex drive isn't the same as yours. And he is more than 10 years older than you. So cut him some slack ( so to speak). He seems to be doing the best he can to please you. I'm sure there's some wriggle room there haha.