Fuzzy, you are one of the kindest people!!
And the medical issues.........maybe/hopefully they're the kind of ones that it can just sometimes take a little time for doctors to "get on top off" but once they do..............???
And you're never "whiny", it's just so good you feel you can talk about things on here..........because we care, and we want to be there for you.
So just fire away!!!
But you know, maybe papa bear doesn't need you to "hold it together" quite so much with/for him as well???

Alison