Believe me we are all tired of taking meds, it's no fun at all. I know that if I don't take my meds my life will go to **** fast. The whole relationship issue. This is my view, if they can't accept all of you then they are not "the one" I'm not saying that bipolar is a flaw, but it is stressful in a relationship. I've been with my husband for twelve years and I was diagnosed right after we were married. On top of that I have OCD. It has been very stressful for him, but he has told me over the years as long as I keep working on myself and don't give up he's not going anywhere. Maybe you should talk this out with a therapist?