Hello, I'm in a bit of a bind and I don't know what to do about this anymore- it seems I have a hard time fitting in with other women. Growing up it was happening and as an adult it still is. I just recently left a moms chat group because sticking up for someone that was being bullied gave me some kind of bad reputation. I've been getting hateful responses calling me an attention ***** for sticking up for her, that I'm a hypocrite and "the bully" for telling someone else to stop being one. I didn't use any name calling or vulgar language so I'm just kind of lost as to what would bring a response like this. I can't help thinking: is it me? Why can't I can't even make friends online?