I got him into therapy a few years ago but then his T had to go on maternity leave and he saw that as she abandoned him. I have been unable to get him back in since. I told him this morning when he got up that he HAS to go back. I will not take no for an answer. He acted like he had no idea what I was talking about then completely withdrew.

I don't know maybe making him go to T is wrong. I prefer to hit things head on deal with it and go from there. He lives in his head and if I push what if he withdraws completely? He's 28 but in so many ways he's still a little kid.