Well at least he showed his true colors before you wasted more time with him.
Yes you can find love while having Bipolar in your life. Bipolar is not a death sentence when it comes to relationships.
You mention people being afraid to date you?? Are you disclosing your Bipolar too soon to potential men? You do not have to fill someone in right off the bat, Hey ! maybe on date 4 you might think " Yack" I don't really like this guy"
Be kind to yourself