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Originally Posted by Yismymindblank12
If you saw me, you'd never expect I'd be like that. A lot of LGBT friends of mine, were very shocked not in a bad way of course, but never thought I'd be.
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What many cis people have a hard time understanding is that you don't have to be hypermasculine or -feminine just because you identify as either gender. I was certainly a boyish kid, but before acknowledging I'm trans (which took me long enough

), I tried to make up for feeling not woman-enough by wearing dresses and presenting very femme. Well, didn't work and I never felt comfortable, but even if I had enjoyed wearing dresses, it still wouldn't mean I'm not a guy.
Lol, my therapist of all people asked wouldn't I start dating girls if I transitioned. Nooooooo!