Lots of fish in the sea. Just the right guy ... blah, blah, blah ...

I guess they way I always thought of it when it came to women was that it wasn't any different that applying for a job or getting published. Just because that one interview didn't land me that job or that submission didn't get me published didn't mean that I would never get a job or get published. In the same way, a relationship not working out didn't mean I wouldn't find the right woman. All it meant is I hadn't found her yet.

In the same way, it's not that he's not out there. It's not that you don't have the right qualities. It's none of those things. You just haven't found each other ... yet. Yes, you'll think you see the signs, it'll all add up, but then ... poof ... it doesn't work. That's okay because it wasn't anything anyone did was wrong. You just hadn't found each other in the mess of this world.

Time to turn over another rock. After a little hissing at the sunlight, the guy under the new rock you found might be the one.