I have been in marriage for 8 and we haven't had sex since my youngest was born he turning 4 this year. We usually do it twice or thrice a month. I am wondering why she's not asking for it or maybe she is just busy doing her work or taking care or of beautiful kids but it is 4 years almost 5! Next month, we will celebrate our 9th wedding anniversary and I want a new kind of celebration. I want it to be special so I want to take our sex life into the next level.

Any help and advice pls. Thanks in advance