I don't plan on being married, because that's just not how I want my relationship to be the goal of, even if it's for many couples their goal. Maybe I'd rather it be based on something that be easier for the both of us, but rather not reliant on marriage or anything like that. I'd like to have it, but I'm not too big on it, most of time. I'd rather avoid it at all costs, it works for some, but not for me. I'd rather spend happiness with the other person without the certificate without the benefits than have the marriage cheat me out of my false illusion that it bring prosper. It's been something I've known as a child growing up exposed to unhappy couples in marriage whether if it's my parents or my many times my closets friends parents all divorced. Feeling just for me, not that it has to be for everyone that it feels like I'm trapped and I'm happy with commitment just not with all the other things that comes with marriage.