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Originally Posted by sabby
What does your "gut" tell you about this relationship?
Be still for awhile, listen inside without judgement, just listen. Do you feel that your ideas about her behavior are on target? If so, then maybe it's time to back away quietly from the relationship. If not, then maybe you just need a break from her for a bit or to realize that you cannot be everything to everyone and at some point she'll have to figure that out as well.
Even if she is totally self involved, maybe it's what she needs to be in order to deal with her issues. Maybe it's just not a place for you to be with her and there is nothing wrong with that. You have to do what is right for you.
Only you can figure out what is best for you and this relationship. Again, go with your "gut" instinct. It won't do you wrong.  |
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Thanks for your advice. Things are better between us now-
We both had a few misunderstandings that got cleared up. She didn't tell me about certain things that would've made me understand why she was reacting to certain situations the way that she was. Once she finally told me about things, then things started to make more sense to me and it took most of what she said less personally.
Also, she is going through a lot still, so I'll just need to give her even more space. Hopefully when things get better, I'll get to see her again and she'll go back to being her old self.