Noooooooo! This guy sounds like a powder keg. You had to get a restraining order for a reason, right? This sounds like a classic power play. He's hunting you down and that's not ok. He's violating the terms that you have set and you don't need to see him in person to know that his intentions are NOT noble. For your own safety, you should consider contacting the police and making sure that this behavior does not continue. It's dangerous and I would be extremely apprehensive about it.