This entire situation sounds unethical to me.

Try not to take him too seriously. He is one person. He might have said that so he wouldn't be interested in you. You are probably a beautiful person. Also, it's what's on the inside that counts.

I know how you feel being attached to your T, but if mine said something like that I would no longer be attached. In order for the therapy to work you should not know much about him. If I saw my T outside of therapy I would turn the other way. I don't want to ruin my therapy experience. I wouldn't be able to open up to him.

You are loved.