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Originally Posted by grimtopaz
Congratulations! What weight of your shoulders! You must be feeling so accepted.
Did she seem surprise by your "revelation" or did you get the sense that she knew already?
I've been wanting to tell my T, but I don't know how to phrase it or what good can come of it. You are very brave!
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We had talked about my maternal erotic transference but I had never told her my feelings - just that I had them and that it bothered me to feel close to her. I said many times I hate that she matters or that she affects me. I also had not told her where my mind had wandered in my ET but it's all symbolic and felt she should know. It explained it more.
So she knew a little but not the depth. I had a hard time talking to her because I didn't want her to figure it out. She had to have known to a degree but says she never assumes.