I understand how concerned you are for your partner & the desire for her to be fealthy for her own good.

All you can do is show that you care, not surface show but really connect. Helps with the reason to want to be healthy with nagging or harping in it.

The bottom line for all ED's it that the desire to change has to come from within the person themselves nothing works when It's done fore someone else because at some point that person will dissapoint them & it ends up backfiring. The desire has to come from within & the past issues that are the foundation need to be processed