you know what? my girlfriend is like that a lot of the time.. it used to really get to me (i can't handle other people being irritated, it makes me really uneasey for some reason) but when we actually talked about it it started to get to me less and less..

I think, maybe as well as talking to your t about it, more communication with your family? Dunno. that always seems to be the answer these days.. communicating.

Sorry for the massively inapropreate reply - i go off on a tangent sometimes. hehe. just wanted to say It makes sense, and dont beat yerself up about it!

xooxxoxo