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Originally Posted by kaliope
hi badjismo
the thing that stood out to me in your post is that you stated, she no longer asks for it....the first thing that popped into my mind is that maybe she is wanting you to desire her. maybe after having kids she is feeling insecure and undesirable. why not plan a romantic night out for your anniversary. get someone to watch the kids for the evenign, rent a hotel room and show her clearly just how much you want her. just a suggestion. welcome to psych central. you will find we have several forums where you can post about your concerns and receive feedback from other members. you will get a lot of support here. again, welcome  |
I second this ^
Drop some Pepe Le Pew on her. You could cook something special for her, get a special bottle of wine. I love the idea of the hotel room, get one with a hot tub.
Even something as simple as sending her little love letters via text or maybe a handwritten one on her pillow. Put in that little bit of extra effort and you may see it all come back.
