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Originally Posted by peaceseeker63
I've joined very few message boards because of nasty behavior. I usually watch the board for awhile before joining, just to see what kind pf messages are being sent. If I see any kind of negativity or hostility, I leave immediately! Life is too short to deal with this type of behavior...save yourself !
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I agree with what you said. I used to post on this one m.b a lot more often for this one social site, and OMG, you'd think that these people who are or were in their 20's, 30's, 40's, and maybe a few who were older would be more mature, but they were like a bunch of nasty 12yr. old kids at times! The stuff they'd talk about was beyond sick! They were obessed with sex and it was not the place to talk about that stuff on this particular site.
They ganged up on me a few times. When I saw them in person at social events that this site threw once in awhile for special members, they wouldn't dare say anything bad to my face! Some would just stare at me, but that's it. Some would flat out avoid me after I gave them hard nasty looks, lol! Some would try to stand close to me for some weird creepy reason (always the guys).
I'm still on that site, but I no longer post anything personal that could be used against me. I was livid when one former mutual friend sent me this long fb post about how "crazy", the b word, and how fat they thought I was. Even though some of them didn't know me, they all ganged up on me anyways after this very immature guy got mad at me after I stood up for myself after he continued to sexually harass me by constantly stroking my arm at these parties.
I brushed it off as him being drunk the first few times, but after that, I finally had it and stood up for myself. NOT ONE of those losers stuck up for me, even my so called friends at the time who were on that fb rant. A few people that I thought were nice at first, the women mostly really stabbed me in the back! They revealed personal info about me that I told them about in PM's.
I never did anythign to them, so that made me even more hurt and confused than anything. They tried hard to get me kicked off the site, but after a couple of the women that moderated the site saw what they wrote, and how they threatened to beat me up, they took my side and decided to have a talk with that one guy who started everything. EFF those losers! Messages boards tend to bring out the worst in some people since they know that there will be very little to no repercussions for their nasty behavior!