she needs help, needs to be in control and is stiffeling your conversation to where she thinks you are trying to control her. i have friend like that and can only talk so long to her because i can't take it anymore. i hope you can understand, she has her problem and needs to address it before no one will put up with her. well maybe others will undertsand and just put up with her,as one can only do, especially a counseler and doc.