honestly I can never go for hours being on the phone with anyone regardless how I feel about them. right now i am having emotional struggles ending relationships etc so i feel i want to spend hours online talking to people etc but normally i have no time and who does? hours on the phone? of course you want "you" time, i don't think it is even possible to talk hours every day. i work all day and talk all day (teach) i cannot possibly talk for hours to no one. so you are fine